Mishka, I just posted this on my thread. It is from a book written by David Wilkerson, a pastor to street gangs in the '50's. He wrote this book on healing over thirty years ago and in it talked about a couple who came to him for counseling, the wife said her husband did not make her "happy". This is what he said: "What a shame that all your happiness depends only on what your husband does. If he's a good husband, if he treats you the way you think you should be treated, if he spends a little time with you -- then you may find a little happiness. But when he lets you down, you have nothing left. Your whole world rises and falls on the actions of your husband....you're not a whole person. You're just half a person.You cannot survive if you depend on someone else for your happiness." Go read when you wanna, if it makes you happy!