Hi HM I've been reading along & you have been getting good advice & seem to have been "doing" the things you should.
"Feeling" as you do is normal (crying, desiring things back, etc).. how you act on it right now with a WAH is to GAL, journal, act as if, etc.
As far as getting more responses.. read other people's threads, find ones that resonate with you, contribute support & encouragement.. find some 'friends', and hang out & help them out, and you will get what you are seeking too.
You tend to get what you put into it.
Peace Bridge
Divorced 03/2010 Mom to two amazing kids
Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.