Originally Posted By: TimeHeals
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While they are the master of their "fog", you will start to "laugh" at their distortion due to your new attitude. Have alot of fun, it helps.



I know exactly what you mean here. Once you just accept everything and start moving on with your own life, some of the stuff they do just seems kind of funny. I am not trying to be mean by that either. You just realize there is something going on that has nothing at all to do with you anymore.


In the "fog" some who where supporting my wifes view point was laughing at me. I'm a pretty secure person, my wife and the situation had chipped it down over the years, so thats all I needed on top of it. Lately I got my old stability and esteem back, so when they laugh at me for some bassackwards stuff such as being a father to your children, its pretty funny to me that they are ignorant enough to laugh at someone for that. Doesn't hurt me one bit, comes across as $hitty.

There are dozens of things in the "distorted realm", that I can laugh at, doesn't bother me anymore.