Hi, PEI, I just got caught up on your thread over here, so forgive me for going back so far.
My H is a Libra and drew a set of scales on his hand once. He said this is what’s going on in my mind, and drew the scales. I asked which side was winning and he said it depends on the day. So, I drew my own set of scales, with one side very far down and on that side I drew my marriage, me, the kids, the house, the dogs, and the other side, I drew nothing – just emptiness. Then I hung it near my desk as a positive affirmation that I will eventually win out the scale game.
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What if the moon were made of spare ribs? Would you eat it?
LOL Just say yes so we can move on.
No to the M counseling, for much the same reasons that Eric says. You’re just not ready for it, it may introduce an additional dimension that throws you off course. He put it excellently.
And btw, still don’t know what PEI means… I guess I’m just not that bright. Duh… 
PEI, I don’t think you ruined anything, but you have to stop pressuring him. They put it very well, you have to stop pressuring him.
And finally, the azi comment had me rolling, thanks Jack.
