Exposed finally,,limbo land

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I have not firewalled anything, and don't really plan too. If she does something in that respects, It is all over but the crying I guess. Seperation at a minimum.
I'm not a rich man, so the finances are not such that it would make much of a difference if she did empty the account, it would just mess up our bills, and in that case, I'm ready to tube our credit through the bankruptcy system.
I just hope she caught a little bit of what was going on, so along with her gut feeling she is doing something very wrong, the little bit of extra guilt might have a chance to start growing.