Obviously the wife says it is too late and she had given me chances before. She is still a very loving mother and cares about people’s feelings.
OK, so you messed up, she messed up, and who is cheating? And an EA is cheating. Period. That's a character issue on top of being disrespectful to your M and your family. She isn't thinking about your family if she is doing this.
Take Coach's advice here. There is no chance of working things out while your W is on planet fruitopia, high on infatuation brain chemicals. None.
Think about that crazy astonaut lady who drove across country with a jar to pee in and stuff in her trunk to kidnap and kill the woman who was seing the man she was infatuated with. There is no making sense of this. She had a husband and 3 kids, and she drove 1800 miles to commit murder because some guy was sending her nice emails.
First, the affair has to end.
Last edited by TimeHeals; 06/03/1007:40 PM.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
