I then found out that she has been having an EA with a man she met in the bar back in April 2010. Loads of texts and phone calls. I am sure she met up with him during my US trip and has also met up at night last week. (not over night)
first order of business is to bust the affair.
you have to set clear boundaries and the consequences
you have to deliver the message calmly and confidently
you need to be prepared for either outcome
keep being a great Dad, improve yourself, and keep posting
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.