...you're not a whole person. You're just half a person.You cannot survive if you depend on someone else for your happiness."
That probably hits home for a lot of LBS's out there. I know my wife expected me to be everything she needed at all times. That dictated her love for me, please me and take care of me and I love you, otherwise I don't.
That was definitely my relationship! In one of our last arguments he said I was a lousy wife because I didn't make him happy. It took me some time and distance to realize that he was never going to be happy with me becaue he wasn't happy with himself. Making him happy was an impossible job..and I didn't want that job anymore. I am now happy.
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn
