I am so sorry that you had that happen to you. It is devastating in so many ways, but the kids do seem to become the main focus. They are for me even though I do want the M. It seems the M will end, but I will be a father forever. A good one!!!
I am doing the right thing for my kids by taking an offensive, not the defensive where they are concerned.
It nice to hear other fathers doing what is right for their children. They are more important than anything else, even the spouse at this point in the M.
Keep positive and continue to do what is best for your kids.
Thank you for keeping my focus in the right direction.
ME-41 W-33 M-8 D-8 S-4 D 5/17/2010 www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1961097#Post1961097