reconciliation after divorce?

[dday101798]

I will be NC until I return home late next week.

And I HIGHLY recommend you remain that way. Be mysterious. If she appraches you at work, simply and business like state "if the subject matter you wish to discuss is NOT business related, it needn't be discussed here". Don't answer her calls, e-mails, text messages, smoke signals, and shoot the carrier peguin before it ever gets to your window.

Should the matter pertain to divorce, simply "confer with my attorney, that's what they are for".

And as Timeheals said, for pete's sake man, get out, live life, YOUR life. Not saying go bar hopping looking for a piece, just saying LIVE YOUR LIFE, you had one before her, and if it's not meant to be, you will have one again after her. But being a hermit and laying at her doorstep each and everynight for her to wipe her feet is no way to live.