@polly -- please note that I said, "when a reply was warranted." The deluge was hers; the trickle of replies was mine.

Not done with this marriage? When I turned my mobile on while the plane bringing me back from the Home of Her True Love, waiting for me was an email from STBX demanding that I tell her NOW what I intended to do about the mortgage on the house or else she will file with the court to force an immediate sale of the property.

She is so bullying, so vengeful, that she'll have the court kick me (and the children) out of this house rather than "lose" it in the settlement.

Not done? Bugger that.