Maybe the two of you should confront them together. If not for your M, but for hers. If I wasn't against having kids involved, I would have had them join in also.
Nothing like two sinners walking into a room with their spouses and kids looking at them and saying "we need to talk".
If I predict correctly, the OM would throw your W under the bus at that point. There's your sign!
Even if we did something like that, there's no way the OM would throw my W under the bus. He started this whole thing, he went through 2 years of unsuccessful MC, and moved out of his house on his own. He wants no part of his wife, which has contributed to the perfect storm that destroyed my family.
WAW Using God Me-43 W-40 M-14 S-11 S-9 D-7 EABomb 5/09 Separated 12/09
