Wallowing can be a good thing ... just be in the moment of misery, working through it. Then it's done, and you're on the other side where the sun is shining.
I've wallowed in my M for 5 years now, and am thinking it's time to leave.
oh my! you have to say more...got your own thread at this point? not that I don't want you here, I just don't want to overlook anything....
are you okay?
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012