Wallowing can be a good thing ... just be in the moment of misery, working through it. Then it's done, and you're on the other side where the sun is shining.
I've wallowed in my M for 5 years now, and am thinking it's time to leave.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
