So ... how do I deal with the now? If it's not raining he said he was coming over right after work to cut the grass .... otherwise I'll see him tomorrow morning when he comes to drive the boys to daycare ...
Do I apologize for bringing it up? A quick sorry and then leave it at that?
Do I pretend it didn't happen? Just be cordial and distant?
Also ... is me telling him that I appreciate him taking on responsibility pressure? I want him to know that I do see the work he's doing and the improvements he's made - that it's not going unnoticed.
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
