Everything that has happened will all fall on her at this point, and she will have to live with consequences of her decisions and actions.
When you finally detach, what she does will not matter to you because it is her life, her actions, her consequences.
You will be too busy thinking about your life, your actions, and your own consequences.
Love (the unconditional kind) is different than attatchment. It is attatchment that has you thinking so much about what she does.
When you detach you can be fully open (yes you love this person, no you do not respect their choices, and yes you are moving on with your life one way or another, and it just doesn't bother you any more).
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
