still separated, headed for D?

[newmama]

I am really struggling really bad. I wish I could talk to someone!!!!!

Should I wait 5 more weeks to bring up D?

Pros: (possibly) WH will get 5 more weeks of this "new" reality check

OW might freak out on him to bug him about D and it will be the last straw for WH


Cons: I am stuck in the land of pain and torture wondering if he is having doubts (good) or if he just doesn't want to pull the trigger (bad)

Will knowing that he wants to divorce me make it easier for me to not feel so sad and not cry in front of S?

I hate him!!!!!