Transparency plan is when you tell him what the boundary is (no contact) and that he has to verify that by being open with his cell phone, email and whereabouts. Greek
He does not have a cell phone. He has one email that I know about and I have access to that one. He was only going over there at lunch until the end when I caught him and then it was late at night. I have no access to his work email or phone which could be the only way he is contacting her. I gave him a boundary. I do not think he has broken it but I dont really know because I dont have access to those emails and such. I know I have to trust him but it is not easy. AT ALL!
