Thanks Mach1 ...

I am reading, and reading and rereading. I guess the setbacks are normal and part of the journey towards detachment - and the fewer I have the faster I move towards detachment maybe. I am trying to understand the MLC and I guess that's why I asked the question "is this an MLC, what if it's not and he's a WAH?" I wanna make sure I'm studying the right monster.

In a nutshell ... what's your sitch? Did you cycle in and out on your way to detachment?


Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc