Maybe he is just there for the wrong reasons...I dont know..Maybe because she does not want him ...Maybe that is why he does not want to remain trasparent or maybe he neesds to know he has a place to run if things get bad.
It shouldn't matter to you why he is THERE. No contact is no contact. But see, you seem willing to split hairs with him about why he's there which just plays right into his game. In other words, H knows that when Swimming says "No contact or else", she really means, "No contact, but if H has a good enough explanation, H can still get away with it."
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