Morning PEI, Oh I'm sorry you had such a distressing interaction with your H. With regards to your question about detaching, any amount I've ever been able to achieve has had to do with how much I'm GAL. What kinds of activities are you interested in? Now I'm thinking with 3 munchkins all under 6 (yeek!) you don't likely have a lot of time for that?!! But still important. Even one special thing that you love to do, just for you. Something that makes you feel calmer, more centered and fulfilled?
Hi PG ... thanks I'm out of the house 3 nights/week based on our arrangement. I have a part-time business so one evening is dedicated to that (I go with others for a drink and munchies after our meeting though and really enjoy that). The other two nights I should be having appointments for my business but I'm having trouble wrapping my head around that right now. I used to love to scrapbook, but I have no space at home right now and am afraid that going through boxes of pictures - a lot of which would be 'happy family pics' - isn't a good idea right now. I've got a massage treatment booked for this Friday (a gift from a friend) and I discovered a new hobby (geocaching) that I think I could really get to like. I love TV and movies ... watching some but can't afford to go to many movies right now.
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
