he told me that intimacy was neither a priority or passion. how does he know that?
it's how he feels - it's emotional, it's what he wants, it's his LL, it's the connection he wants, it's how he feels loved by his woman, he didn't "see" it from you, it's his perspective, it's real to him, it's your problem to help solve if you love him, it's a gift to know what he really wants, it will get you what you want
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he isn't me
first thing you said that made any sense in a while. can you really "see" him? mind reading is the result of not have real dialouges. then the resentment builds from unmet needs. "the look" supposedly conveys how you really feel but it really creates walls for you to hide behind and him to back away from. boundaries are where one person starts and the other begins (he isn't me).
you can stay mad behind your wall or you can do the work. all parties must come to a end that includes pity parties.
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then why am i bothering?
I am asking myself the same question.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
