There are other problems: this is my week with the kids. She has planned a trip out of town to meet with OM. She had taken a job babysitting for a friend, so she committed D17 to do the babysitting for her while she's gone. D17 is not happy about it, as she wasn't asked if she wanted to do it. I'm not happy either since it means significantly less time with D17 this week. She's basically babysitting during times I had already made plans for her. Hopefully this will be easier to deal with once we have an agreement in place.
Boy, I would nip this in the bud real quick! Boundary setting time! I know you're worried about getting the papers signed and don't want to ruffle feathers, but since she's signed the house over to you (that was one of your big concerns, right?) I would NOT put off dealing with this.
Glad you had a fun, even if it was hectic, weekend. See, you have more good friends out there than you knew.
