CLV, I see the XW 3-4 four times a week depending on the kid exchange and/or soccer/baseball schedule. It makes moving on more difficult but the way things are set-up allows me to spend a lot of time with the kids and I am not ready to give that up.
I have still not met the OM and do not plan to do so. I do not see any advantage in that, although he is marrying my ex in August...very odd. What the ex is teaching the kids about marriage and familiy would make a great plot for some twisted soap opera story line.