I am not sure where I left off but he kept going over there the week of the May 10th and was telling me about it. I knew. Because I could see her leave at lunch. To make a long story short because I hate long drawn out stories, I was threatened by OW via a string of text messages hearing how she is not responsible for his actions, I do not contact her, I have not contacted her and I WONT play her games. I told my husband enough was enough, it had to end because I could not live this way anymore. I made it clear if there was any further contact that that would be the end of it. I heard things from him over that weekend such as I love you, we need to need each other, we need to be 100% honest with each other and so forth. He has flipped flopped alot of the past few weeks, loving one second and backing off the next. My issue is that the only time they could have contact is at work so there is no way for transparency. I also have a problem with the fact that "she" supposedly ended it and he did not. Therefore, I question his movitavtion. I have really had enough. He said I either trust him or I dont...It is not that simple for me. How can I trust him again? I feel like I am living in limbo right now? What do I do? It has affected SO many lives and that is what upsets me. My children DO feel the affects of it. My parents and his sister feel the effects of it and it does not matter at ALL to them? Really? Is it worth it to hurt so many people? I know I am rambling but I need some help here!
As for the se*...that has never been an issue with us.
