So..this is probably a stupid question, but..what do I do? Keeping in mind I want to save my marraige and he has no interest in me or it. Or, very little, anyway.

Do I tell him stop what he is doing or leave? Or do I pretend it isn't happening and hope that it run it's course soon. I keep thinking - this is a KID - 19 years old. Even if he doesn't want to end it, maybe she will.

Thanks!


Me:36 H:38
Together: 20 years
Married: 16 years
Kids: 13 & 10 yr. old
Discovered affair: 1/10
H denies affair. Refuses to save marraige.
Divorce filed: December 2010