Newbie.Trying with faith and hope to save marriage

[timehealsall]

Yes, you ARE in a panic mode.

We've been together since I was 18. Married only 2.5 years. Pregnancy is not "fake" if that is what you are implying. I have no idea why God decided to add this blessing at this time. He is free to demand DNA test or call my ob if he wants.

Yes, that is what I am implying. I guess you don't seem to see the reason that not only myself, but a man who wants out would see it that way huh? I have been doing this a long time and people lie to those on this site who are trying to help all the time. You don't see that a man in his situation would question this? Women have done this since the beginning of time when losing a man. You will get much further with him if you let him know that you can understand why he would question whether you are doing this just to get him back instead of acting angry at him for questioning you. This is why I brought up the rewriting history. You told him you weren't in love with him for quite some time and now you say you are sorry and was wrong. What about how HE feels? Your track record seems to me show that you change your mind and say things you do or don't mean quite often.

This here ^^^ is a perfect reason why you should always take any advice you get with a grain of salt. No one knows your sitch but you. Leaving one piece to a story can derail the type of advice you'll get or you'll be called out a liar as in this case.

I feel horrible that PC should be told that she is faking this. I KNOW HER IN REAL LIFE and I told her about this site because it has been such a wonderful source of support for me that i hope It''d do the same for her.

I can tell you for a fact that she is pregnant. Gucci loafer, I appreciate your input on the thread and think you're right about some of the things you shed light on. But to imply that she is faking was hurtful.