still separated, headed for D?

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1) I believe you will find a way, NM. I don't know how it will come about or when, but it will come, because you want it.

2) We all make mistakes in every part of our waking lives, in our relationships moreso than anywhere else. We don't come into this world 'already assembled', right? We are works in progress and grow through our 'mistakes'. I believe from reading your posts that you were a great woman in your marriage, as you are a great woman now.

3) Your posts are helping a lot of people.I am super impressed by the thought and time you put in to helping strangers, over and over. But if you need time out , take it!

4) I have hope for your sitch as long as you have hope. Noone knows your sitch like you do. It's your marriage - you hold out as long as you want. Other people want you pain to be over and they are more impatient that you as they have less to lose. You'll know when you want to give up.