I don't know, nor care to know the details of their sexual life, but I do know that my husband and I have shared an amazing sex life together throughout our marriage. He would be the first to admit that there's no reason to stray there, and he still comes home looking for it. I assure you, I've long discarded my rose-colored glasses and with the help of a counselor, given this crazy situation a very close look, and it baffles people why he is making the choices he is. Much of it is tied up in this texting/emailing relationship, because I think it offers him ways to say things he'd never feel comfortable speaking face to face (and I don't just mean sexually). The man has told me far more many times he loves me in a text that in person. I'm sure that's why I got the divorce bomb dropped through text. He rarely speaks to her by any other means than email/text. It is a weird relationship.
