No sure What EP would say and I am really struggling yes. This feels so different to my ex Wife in that nothing seemed wrong at all and she has said as much.
Think she gone into hiding now anyway, maybe shee is going to just leave me to it now and go the non contact route, which will prrobably be better if were not going sort things out.
All just seems so sad/wrong to me. I was back on top of the world.....TBH, I had been for probs 18 months since I dealt and got over my ex Wife. The difference is this time as I say, this girl is a wonderful wonderful person. Tho I have read the first relationship past a long relationship break up is often jut a get over that relationship type thing and this is maybe what I was for her (sadly).
You are all correct tho and I know it, I just need to hear it.
I'll no contact her now and just play it out.
I always say to others,what's meant to be is meant to be. Lifes to short. Need to get back to my positive old self and not dwell on things.
Thanks all
apologies for not posting to others, I just dont think I'm much help atm.