OK I just re-visited your first page. Yep it was long! lol!
BTW I answered your q about R talk in my thread- at least my recollection of "the rules" about R talk and my opinion!

About starting projects that snowball...YES! I think that is why I procrastinate so often on them!

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004