H has continued to contact me via text. Some days it is just a "Hi", others it is to tell me where the cops are sitting on the freeway (we used to let each other know). I didn't respond.
Yesterday was his birthday, so I texted happy birthday and he replied Thanks. The kids went to meet him for lunch with whatever gifts they came up with and cards...a funny one from me. Later he texted to say he liked it and thought it was funny. It involved Giant boobs. Old H's sense of humor...New H became quite prudish.
This morning, he sent an email: "was surprised you didn't come to lunch yesterday." WTH!? How can he be surprised? I wasn't any part of the plan DD16 set up w/him. He is living w/ ho and I have told him, he cannot be a part of my life while that is so. I have repeated this every time it comes up. He must be just jerking the rope to see if I am still at the end of it. Or is he trying to reconnect? Or just trying to cake-eat. I replied with " ?? D16 said you all had fun."
Should I have bitten on the R talk?
"If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine!" 1st thread
