I guess maybe you are right. H and OW just moved into a house together about a month ago and NOW all this is starting up again?
It's very upsetting to me. Right or wrong I lead a much happier life when he doesn't contact me. I made it clear to him MONTHS ago that I would no longer be there for him under ANY circumstance and I really don't think he gets that.
But if I try and tell him that he will turn it around on me and say how mean I am because he is just being "nice" and nothing he does is ever right for me or good enough.