Confused and looking for advice

[hockeymom12]

So today was much like yesterday, I had to email H about the kids and did not get a response. I ended up calling him as we got some disapointing news about our house and I wanted to know what our plan was, he seemed upbeat and was very nice, so I made sure I did not talk long, stuck to the point for my call and was very upbeat as well. He ended up telling me in this conversation the answer to my question in my email I sent him. He then ended ujp calling me a bit later to ask what time our daughter needed to be at ball and to confirm what time I worked, he knew the answers to these questions so I find it funny that he still relies on me to ensure he needs to know where he has to be and when. Fast forward to later on this evening and I do not know what happened but he was back to being distant. Any contact we had was brief and tense on his end. Apparently his night with the kids ended with him yelling at our son because of the attitude he is getting from him. He does not seem to understand that the kid is hurt and angry and this is how he is showing it. Our S10 does not act this way towards anyone else but my H does not see it.

I went to a MC for the first time today and basically was given the same advice as DR so I will continue doing what I am doing and not worry so much about how my H is acting. He needs to work through his stuff on his own. I just have to stay upbeat, keep care of my kids and take care of myself.