Yes, that is what I am implying. I guess you don't seem to see the reason that not only myself, but a man who wants out would see it that way huh? I have been doing this a long time and people lie to those on this site who are trying to help all the time. You don't see that a man in his situation would question this? Women have done this since the beginning of time when losing a man. You will get much further with him if you let him know that you can understand why he would question whether you are doing this just to get him back instead of acting angry at him for questioning you. This is why I brought up the rewriting history. You told him you weren't in love with him for quite some time and now you say you are sorry and was wrong. What about how HE feels? Your track record seems to me show that you change your mind and say things you do or don't mean quite often.
Yes I do see how you can think that or any other man can think that BUT I am having a baby. There is no lie about that. Whether some people choose to believe it or not on this site it is up to them. I did not tell him to trap him but he should know. I will not ask him for a dime. He has the choice to never see the baby and not recognize it. I am not begging for him to be the father.I did not act angry at all to him when he questioned my motives.
Yes, I made that mistake and told him that a few times. What does he feel? Well he feels that he doesn't love me anymore. So, because of what I said to him in times of despair and anger during his course of painkiller addiction, I should just give up? Do I have no chance to bust my divorce?
I would like your male perspective.
Last edited by papayachic; 06/03/1003:45 AM.
M:27 H: 33 M:10/07 T:9 yrs H moves away for drug recovery: 3/2010 ILYBINILWY & wants D:5/02/10 Confirmed OW:5/21 Told MIL:5/25(only concerned about H's recovery) Told FIL:5/28(will speak to him)
