But W is apparently not in misery. Enjoying time with OM and EA. Glad to be rid of me. Find it hard to see daylight through that one.

But, dd, I am following your drop the rope advise, wherever it takes me.

H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012