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I think not only is he suffering from affair addiction, but also from a MLC.


no. the other woman is a good lay that is why he keeps going back for more. dont kid yourself with this mid-life-crisis nonsense. you are being walked over because of it.

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a wife who loves and has supported him since beginning law school


it could be argued then that without your contribution his law degree would not exist and it and the potential lifetime earning associated with such a advanced degree are marital equity and you are entitled to 50%.

dont kid yourself and dont let yourself be walked all over.