Mr. Bond, we attended counseling together once, but he felt as if the counselor and I were "ganging up" on him, which was not at all the case. He saw a therapist on his own for over a year, but was never completely honest with him; therefore, he was never able to start healing from his troubles. My husband experienced a father cheating on his mother when he was just 13 (they reconciled), and my husband's first wife left him within 6 months of being married (she just wasn't ready). He has such huge issues about being left from his past situations.