When he filed for divorce in March, he informed me by text message that he had filed as I was picking up my youngest two kids from preschool. I'll never forget that moment as long as I live. I was obviously an emotional wreck by the time my older two kiddos got of the bus, and I did tell them without him being present then. I did everything to comply with following through with his request for divorce, and then he came back 2 weeks later, begging on his hands and knees for forgiveness. The OW, who has a child who is a good friend of one of my children, filed for divorce at the same time, but they are following through with it, and it will be final on Monday. Truly, my husband is a broken man, which is so very sad, considering the fact that he is a very intelligent and successful attorney with a life that others dream of having...his health, a wife who loves and has supported him since beginning law school and most importantly, 4 beautiful, amazing, healthy kiddos. I think not only is he suffering from affair addiction, but also from a MLC. I do pity him, as hard as that is to believe for my closest friends and family members.