Marked&healed- yes, right now i do not see him,only text and write letters. And yes, he sent two texts, on seperate occasions about divorce. I have a suspicion that he is being prompted\guided to these texts also, they don't sound like him at all, like his words. That is not to say I am making any excuse for him mind you..I have been at this long enough now. But texts are so ....I can't think of the word...poorly stated, abrupt,harried... it will come to me.
Grace- Yes I set the boundaries on NC and coming to home. Yeah I am okay with his quiet for the most part..Sometimes he working his bad mojo though. :>) I'm glad to know you experience same from your H.
fudwoman- thanks for tip. i am a student of the 12 step Universe as well. So I understand the saying. It is good to be reminded. thanks.
everyone- thanks for the tip on making a goal list or a list of positives that have taken place, no matter how small. That H texts me in full sentences is a small victory. And to look at where I have been as to where I am now would be a good start. Thanks all for your input. BeastieManager
M\51- H\53 crisis-08 M-30 years 2-D's 25\22 ILYBINILWY - Feb 09 BD - Mar 09 Sep- May 09 NC -Jan 10 H fl'd papers Aug-10
