V1olin's new life without wife

[v1olin]

I have changed in some very big ways and I am very proud of that. I think she is starting to realise that these are permanent changes wether or not we reconcile or divorce. I do wonder if she is cake eating a bit and just keeping me as a friend but who knows?

Dday, I am still wondering about what you said because I thought the correct thing for me to do at this point would be to sign the papers and not mention it to her. That should releave a ton of pressure in the sitch.