Hmm how does that generally work with mutual friends and/or if the LBS is very close to MLCer's family? At his worst my H only talked to me. Now increasing (sometimes) w/ me and family but nothing with friends.

I find it hard to understand why it's good to treat them like a "friend" if part of my long-term problem is that my H has said we're too much "friends" and not enough "lovers".

Thanks!

M--14 years
T--20 years, HS sweethearts
dday #1--2002 EA
dday #2--2005 bar sl*t
dday #3/4--Feb 2010 texting/cell/physical/who knows what
Shortly after found out he had been injecting steroids for 2 years