No, that's me. I know. I don't want to hear! But they KEEP bringing him up to me. I guess I need to tell them again. And probably give them a 'why' behind it so they remember.

The other thing is-- what does "lot of contact" mean to her? She's been calling and leaving him messages and he texts back? That's the problem with messages between people. I don't know what the facts are. So it shouldn't mean much to me at all.

When I wrote her back, I omitted responding to that part. But I should be more direct. It's just that I felt the resolve stronger back when I told them, and now I tend to get curious. But it's just bad bad bad to go through family.