xW was again trying to reiterate to me she was going ahead and ceasing payments to daycare and after-school care providers for the weeks I have custody of our S's. xW just wants to cover her own weeks, but still wants me to utilize her mother's "services" for that part of the childcare,as well as everything else during my time. Basically, I would be paying for half of xMIL's monthly fee directly, were I to go along with that.
You need to check into all of it. I know that when childcare was being figured in my settlement, childcare was a factor. If I was paying for childcare that would have increased the child support. If you are taking over some of the responsibility for childcare then your child support should decrease....and you have the right to choose the childcare provider!
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She even started to sing some pity card song about needing to know because if she couldn't count on my paying her my half of her fees, she would be unable to pay for her apartment and thus be forced to seek assisted-living accommodations. (boo hoo.)
Wow, she is really a piece of work!!! How did you not laugh?!
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn
