Hi fud, welcome...it IS a great place with a lot of great advice. You'll get it, and if you let it, it will help.

The best thing you can do is to just go hide somewhere & read everything you can, those links that OP gave you are invaluable.



And thanks for the heads up about Shrek. I should probably wait until it comes out on DVD then, shouldn't I. lol


formerly known as "shelbel"
Me 40, stbxh 40
DSs 9, 7 & 3
M9, T10
Stbxh is a diagnosed bipolar & an addict. The end.