And here I am .... H's MLC ....

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Thanks shelbel ... I think I would just tell him our appt was cancelled and that we still have our appt in July (we originally set out that we would go monthly) and then tell him that the MC said if we needed to rebook it then we could do that. I'm not going to come right out and say that I cancelled it, just be vague about it. The last thing I need is to instigate an R talk by trying to avoid an R talk!

And I guess I should add that we are generally getting along very well, our interactions are pleasant and even fun. He seems to be noticing change in me but as J3B pointed out, I need to stop fishing for compliments to see if he's noticed.

For those that think we should keep the MC appt ... what direction do you think we should take it? At first I was thinking we could use it to talk about the stuff we are doing for ourselves that we committed to, but the more I think about it, the more I think we should probably get some more time under our belts. It's about actions not words at this point right ... talking about change is not change ...

Anyway ... I'll let y'all weigh in ...