Update the stbxw and i texted today today.

ME...let her know a freind of ours showed up this mornning.

She...you and i arnt freinds dont text me unless it has to do with son , your acctions are the reason we cant talk im not your wife or property.

Me... Wtf are you talking about and who cares about the family wrecker.Im just telling you dave showed up this mornning and if you cant be an adult about things. Thats your deal ive been a good man father and husband and i dont loose sleep at night because every marrige has a dry spell where you qestion your self and if we cant talk thats on you.

WAW...you dont get it . I dont want to talk to you. your actions cause drama and greif in my life. If it was not for sonwe would have no reason to talk.PS. how could he be homewrecker if we didnt start dateing till after you filled seperation papers. tell freind hi.

ME...Thats a lie i know the truth i seen him sneeking around and showing up at events as i was leaving. Him calling you a 150 times in one month and texting 1000 times.And when you stayed at your brotheres house and you telling me he is like your brother and you would never sleep with him. I am not a stupid person i dont feel bad because i tryed to protect my family from peoplethat would destroy my family and would give addvice and play with our son to act like a dad to take an advantage of my wife. We were having a down time in our marrige from lifes problems.atleast when our son gets in his 20s i will tell him that i fought to save our family till yhe day that your mom divorced me.

WAW...By the way ive dated other people too.. would you like their names and numbers and the places where they work so you can harass them too.

ME...Im tired of you lieing to me and shi$%ing on me and our son if you cant see that everyone qestions their marrige and about life being to short or being un happy that is life people deal with it.

WAW..I didnt shi^ on you i left. That is all i have done. You are the one who made my life the living hell.Accept that Eveeryone that you have harrassed with your nonsence thinks that you need to get over it and move on.

WAW... I would of been unhappy and bitter and depressed Had i stayed it would of gotten worse. Why do you continue to go around and around with meon this. I DONT LOVE YOU. that couldnt of changed. Do you think that one of these days the light bulb is going to come on. and that i will magicaly say "oh please let me come back" I was wrong" dont hokd your breath... it isnt going to happen and the sooner you realize that and move on with your life the better off we will all be.

ME... When are you going to wake up Ive never tryed to fight with you only for you and our family. I know what we had and so do you im trying to prove to you that what we had and could have again is worth fighting for i know that you are a better person then you are accting like right now.

WAW...Thatt is the part you dont get in my eyes their was nothing worth fighting for. You make my life miserable with your manipulation and drama. You have to much pride to just let me go it seems as if you think its a competion. Im not a prize im a person that no longer wants to be in a relationship with you. The [censored] you put me through is un healthy and abusive and im fed up with it. YOU need professional help.

ME...What head games and manipulatiom?

WAW...The herassing my family and freinds. The guilt trips you pull on me.

ME... I have not pulled any guilt trips and im not the one lies. your family is still our family. If you our feeling guilt that is you ive just told you how i feel. I still love you and belive in the journey that we started together and our beautifull son that we created. I never new that the few problems we had would push you to someone else for emotinal support when i was here the whole time needing the same thing that you needed that we should of found in each other.
More to come later any addvice please help.

She did say that he is the love of her life and marrring me was a mistake because he was allwasys their and .


Me 37
Waw 32
son2
bomb 8/11/09
O/M 12/25/09
Divorce filed 8/25/09
divorce finale 6/16/10
Divorce putt on hold 6/16/10
Divorce postponed STBXW idea 8/8/10