Think of it as an addiction. When you take the drug away from him he wants it more. The OW is his crutch. So unless you can arrange for a major intervention, he's going to keep going back to the OW.
Would his family be willing to stage an affair intervention?
Nope...though they are disgusted. "None of their business", "He's an adult", "They hope he realizes what he's doing"...
They are very nice people but def not aggressive like my family. If I had an A, even though they are my parents, they would tell me to tell H or else they would out me. That is not the case with his.
M:27 H: 33 M:10/07 T:9 yrs H moves away for drug recovery: 3/2010 ILYBINILWY & wants D:5/02/10 Confirmed OW:5/21 Told MIL:5/25(only concerned about H's recovery) Told FIL:5/28(will speak to him)
