Oh, I see your point. I'm in absolutely no position to give advice, but I certainly see your point.

What do you think would happen if you gave it another month? How would you suggest it to H?

I think I'd be wanting to wait, as well, but I'd better let the vets weigh in more on this one.

I'll be watching.

And, btw--you are doing so well, keep it up.

formerly known as "shelbel"
Me 40, stbxh 40
DSs 9, 7 & 3
M9, T10
Stbxh is a diagnosed bipolar & an addict. The end.