Husband left me 3 months pregnant...

[newmama]

I sort of mentioned this to H and he replied with you're not going to be alone... YOU HAVE ME!!! WTF!!! Seriously!"

Yeah...my WH said that to me often.The last time was something like "You're not a single mom! I will always be there to help you with S!"

And I clearly remember calling him all distraught when S was 2 months old, wouldn't breastfeed or take the bottle for hours and I wanted to get help from the nurses on call but he would cry if I put him down. I asked WH if he could please come over for a couple of hours to help me and he said SORRY, I CAN'T. I told him that I better find someone who I could rely on in an emergency then. And he said if it was an emergency I could always call him. So I said "ok if I think S is dying I can call? But if he is just sick or in distress then it's not important enough?" GRRR!!! I hung up on him and I called my aunt and they helped out.

BD just do what you need to not think about your H for now. D won't make him go away because legally he still gets to see your baby. But you have every right to just IGNORE HIM until the baby is born!